Friday, June 6, 2014

Leela Rose

We had her and named her Leela!  She’s a gem.  The most beautiful girl in the world (sang in falsetto).  Life has been a whirlwind; I even gave myself an awful haircut because there was no time to do anything but sleep, nurse and eat.  My badly neglected blog is even more badly neglected.  I’m sure you’ll forgive me when you see her…Here is our dear Leela at one week!  Kaitlyn took  the picture. 

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Beautiful girl is beautiful.  Also, tons of hair, yes?!  I’m about to share Leela’s birth story.  Don’t say I didn’t warn you…

So labor hurt a bunch.  I don’t mean to brag about how painful it was, but damn, son.  That shit hurt.  If someone set out to torture me, I don’t think they’d do as effective a job as labor did.  Sad lol.  Leela came a week early.  I had through the roof high blood pressure :(  My midwife and doctor were concerned that it would lead to other scary complications, so they recommended an induction.  I had no context (first baby/labor), but my midwife said induction makes the contractions more intense.  On top of that, Leela was facing the wrong way aka “sunny side up’'; again no context, but I was told sunny side up also makes the contractions more intense.  Contraction pain aside, my temperature began to rise, my cervix failed to dilate past 5 cms, and Leela’s head began to swell.  My midwife and doctor started talking caesarean; I started shaking violently out of fear.  I did want our baby out and healthy asap though, so I got on board with little convincing. 

The medical team moved quickly and before I could process what was happening, our baby was born!  I was so relieved when I heard her cry.  When Chris brought her to my side, I remember being surprised because her eyelashes where crazy long.  She was healthy (whew!), super puffy and red and perfect. 

I was so grateful for our medical team’s speediness when things got complicated.  I was also grateful for our midwife team’s support in making sure Chris and I were fully informed decision makers.  The midwives were magic in calming me down during the worst contractions and making me feel safe.  Top marks go to Chris.  He was incredibly strong and took every frustration I flung at him like a pro.  He was so many things for me that day- masseur, counsellor, punching bag, coach- whatever I needed, he adapted. 

Labor was an incredible journey.  Now it’s time for the good stuff- raising our baby like there’s no tomorrow. 

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

custom crib skirt

After assembling the crib, I thought you need to cover yourself up, missus!  I went on Fabric.com and spent hours upon hours obsessing over fabric for the nursery.  Since the nursery walls were white, I knew I wanted fabrics that would really pop.   I finally went for a green polka dotted number called Loralie Fast Women Jumbo Dots Green/White (wft is that name, right?!); I ordered 2.5 yards of the stuff.  Sadly, the last time I checked Fabric.com, they ran out of giant loose lady fabric.  There are other great options though and I would absolute use Fabric.com again.  Check out the final product! 

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Easiest sewing project ever.  You just need three rectangular pieces of fabric; one for the front of the crib and two for the sides.  Measure the length and width of the front and sides of the crib just under the mattress to the floor.  For my crib, the measurements were 16.5” height, 51.5”long (front) and 26.5” long (sides).  Be sure to add at least 3 inches extra to your measurements.  I sewed a zip stitch and the edge to prevent fraying, folded the edges in by about 1/2 an inch, and straight stitched over the tip of the fold.  Just the tip. 

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I used safety pins to attach the fabric to the mattress frame.  The corners were a little bit of a pain.  I was glad I added that extra 3 inches to fill up any potential gaps in the corners. 

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Now I can store things under the crib on the DL…maybe food, probably not, probably diapers.  Anyone out there in nesting mode? 

Thursday, February 27, 2014

paint

We have wonderful friends.  Big thanks to Keith, Alea and Adam for helping Chris paint the nursery!  I tapped out on account of the baby and the fumes; spent the day listening to 90s slow jams and pushing pudding cups on our friends. 

After a ton of thought, we decided to paint the room…white!!!  I found these vibrant fabrics and super colorful prints, so methinks a white background would make those elements stand out more.  The walls started off greyish purple.  See the ugliness below.  We had workout equipment and a rocking chair in there; it was a confused room.  This baby in my belly has really given the room a sense of purpose! 

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After one gallon of Contemporary White from Behr, the room looked so fresh so clean, so fresh and so clean clean. 

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You can see the crib skirt and curtains on the floor.  I’m bursting to share those projects with you!  Here’s a teaser of the fabric.  Stay tuned! 

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check out our crib

I started mat leave!  Baby isn’t here yet, so I have lots time to nap, clean, play with Charlie  and update my blog.  I’ve been surprisingly busy in the past few months and I’m happy to have time now to nest and relax.  Major part of nesting- setting up the nursery…
We got a crib!  It was my first Black Friday purchase, which is getting pretty big in Canada by the by.  We weren’t looking to drop more than a couple hundred dollars on the crib and found a great sale from Best Buy of all places!  Chris in his whatever you want, babe attitude gave me free reign to pick one out.  So in my obsess until I’m tired attitude, I spent hours researching look, safety, and cost.  I picked the Storkcraft Bradford Fixed Side Convertible Crib in white.  It was a 4-in-1 deal (crib, toddler bed, day bed and full size bed), crazy cheap (under $180), and it was made of non toxic materials. 




It was also easy to assemble!  Only took me an episode or two of Dr. Who.  Yes, I assembled the crib on my own!  And yes, I watch Dr. Who.  It was delivered in the morning and I couldn’t wait for Chris to get home, so I took it upon myself.  I love to build stuff.  Also, I find Dr. Who amusing and endearing. 

Monday, December 16, 2013

gender reveal party

We had a Gender Reveal Party!  The first time I talked to Chris about it, I excitedly said, “Let’s have a Baby Sex Party!!”  Then he got all shocked and grossed out.  I went all rage monster on him about how he never wants me to have parties and have fun and how great it would be to find out in front of our family and friends.  Then Chris was like, “Oh!  Think about what you’re saying.” Turns out, Baby Sex Party makes people think about sexual fetish stuff.   After that conversation, we referred to it as a Gender Reveal Party. 

We sent out invites via http://www.evite.com/.  I used the upload your photo invites.  I was learning how to use Illustrator at work, so I made a simple picture that read ‘S/HE What’ll it be?!’ 

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For decorations, I just love pom poms, don’t you?  I made a bunch, fuck ton, of pink and blue pom poms.  I was looking forward to stringing those babies up, but I got some “Should you be doing that?” from Chris, so Chris and Nicole strung them up on our ceiling.  Thanks, guys!

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As guests arrived, we had them write their names on a gender voting board.  The final count was 13 boy and 10 girl. 

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My absolute favorite part was the cake pop reveal.  Catherine, an amazing baker friend of ours made cake pops.  I asked her to make the batter the typical pink for girl or blue for boy.  I was adamant that I didn’t want to find out the gender before the party.  At the ultrasound, Chris found out the sex and he told Catherine.  He kept it a secret for 3 days.  Kudos, love.  At the party, we passed the cake pops around and everyone took a bite at the same time. 

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Kaitlyn took a video of the action.  I crazy nervous at this point!  It was no secret I wanted a girl.  Straight up, I was even practicing my I’m-ok-smile if the batter was blue.  Yup, I’m aware I have issues.  Here’s a screen shot of the video.  As you can see, I coordinated pink and blue outfits. 

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The batter revealed GIRL!!!!!!!!  Fun filter time…

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I’m so happy we shared such a special moment with our friends and family.  I can still taste the delicious cake pops! 

Monday, November 18, 2013

Baby and Tot Show

My lovely friend, Raelene, and I went to the Baby and Tot Show.  It was a fun afternoon, no lies.  Here are a bunch of booths that caught my eye.

Happy Nappy Cloth Diaper Service: I love the environment, so why not give it a try.  I did some research and I don’t know why more people don’t do cloth diapers.  Cloth diapers are cheaper than disposable diapers and with the pick up and drop off service you don’t need to manage clean up!  I’m going to try them for the first few months and give you an update.  I just signed up for their service, and I’ve never been more excited about poop. 

Cord Blood Banks: A co-worker, Kim, first made me aware of cord blood banking services.  She took me along for a visit to a private banking agency and I scored a few brochures.  After extensive reading, chatting with the cord blood booths at the Baby and Tot Show, and discussing it with Chris, we’d like to go the public bank route.  It was such a personal decision and I’m glad we took the time to look into it. 

Calgary Childbirth Education & Doula Association: Every time I talk to a doula they help alleviate my birth fears little by little.  Since we found out I was pregnant so late, I’m on several waitlists for midwife agencies.  I think doulas are another great option; and if I don’t end up getting a midwife then I definitely want a doula.

Recreation booths galore: I wasn’t put into a lot of recreation as a wee one.  Now that I work at a recreation based nonprofit, recreation for me wee one is a must.  The Gymboree ‘booth’ had it going on; it was more like an activity area.  There was a class going on almost organically and the staff were amazing. 

I left the show feeling excited and overwhelmed by all the stuff available for bb.  Lots of decisions to make! 

Sunday, October 13, 2013

I didn’t know I was pregnant

Folks, here’s a story about the week I thought I was 2 weeks, 10 weeks, and 14 weeks pregnant. 

When I first found out I was pregnant, I thought I was about 2 weeks along.  Chris and I wanted to wait until the first trimester (3 months) was over to start telling people.  It was going to be tough, I was aching to tell my mom; but Chris and I pinky sweared, which is law between us homies. 

DSC_1143_thumbA few days later, I saw my doctor and told him about all the issues I had over the summer.  I thought I had narcolepsy, depression, anemia; I shouldn’t self diagnose with Google.  Anyways, we went over my cycle dates and symptoms and he dated my pregnancy at 10 weeks!  Oh my, I was surprised!  And sheepish! 

Days after that, Chris and I went to my dating and viability ultrasound.  I’ve never had an ultrasound before.  I had to drink 4 glasses of water, 2 hours before, and not pee.  I failed about 1 hour before, so I drank another glass of water.  I failed again 30 mins before, so I had yet another glass.  Not really sure if that last glass made a difference, but I’m an overachiever. 

Chris was my driver, my washroom finder, my rock.  Solid guy, that guy!  We anxiously waited for the ultrasound tech and I imagined the bb would be a blob.  Stubby everything and indiscernible.  The tech came in, set me up real good and the image on the screen wasn’t what I expected. 

Chris said, “Wow, that looks like…a body.” 

I said, “Are those fingers?!” 

The tech said, “Yes, you can see the hand there".”

I said, “Really?”

Tech said, “You said you were 10 weeks, but you’re further along than you thought.”

We said, “Really?!”

Tech said, “You’re closer to 14.” 

We said once more and louder, “REALLY?!”

Surprise of my life.  I must have looked funny; eyes wide open, mouth wide open.  Catching flies.  I looked over at Chris and I don’t think I’ve ever seen him so happy. 

That’s the story of how I skipped over the first trimester.  I didn’t know I was pregnant, y’all. 

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